How To Be a Good Listener For Our Friends

I'm sure everybody in the world can't run off from a PROBLEM...

although they have good intelligence or great spiritually, mentally, and so many other abilities...

trouble will never let us life happily...

or maybe it is precisely inversely??

think it seriously......

well, if you think that you are a good person for your friends, you have to make sure that you really care about them, you will be able beside them when they need you, you will be sincere to sacrifice your ego for the sake of your friends' happiness. uhuh...

and the other evidence is proven by the way you are listening to your friends when they are sharing about their feeling to you...

here are the attitudes you must have to be a good listener for them:

1. listen carefully to your friends, make sure that you don't miss something important from the story,

2. don't ever try to cut the chat while she is eager to talk much about their problems,

3. stay away to pay your attention to your gadget; mobile phone, laptop, ipad, etc. your friends will feel ignored,

4. try to give body language responses (nodding of head) or simple verbal responses (such as, "ooo", "how come?", "I see", etc.),

5. don't try to give comments, suggestions, or advices when they don't need it, (or maybe they want you to be a listener too, not more)

6. when they need your comments, suggestions, or advices, you have to give it seriously, real from your heart.

for the addition, it's better if you also share about your or others' experience with the same problems and the problem solving itself, is it work or not?

well, that's all about How To Be a Good Listener For Our Friends....

hope it can be useful for us....